Monday, July 5, 2010

Just when I thought our chance had passed, you go and save the best for last

I fell out of it (whatever that was)
My case is different.
Unlike normal cases, I'm jumping with joy after coming in terms with my newest *realisation* :)
Ahh, I feel so free ..I could fly. I don't even need wings :O

Okay so as I said, My case is different. Erase it.

Now, picture a couple deeply in love. Love okay, love.
They're in love with each other for years together and then they get married and blah.
And slowly and gradually after all those years of togetherness, they start falling out of love. They don't feel the same about each other anymore. Staying together becomes a duty for them. They're together only for the others around them. Not for each other. It's all a pretence. If given a chance, they would have freed themselves long back but something or the other always comes in the way. And there, a life of compromise awaits them!

What a tragic situation!
This happens. This totally happens. I've seen such couples.
Couples who were so i-love-you-i-cant-live-without-you types, bubbling with strong, intense feelings for each other and then after years those very feelings are reduced to something so insignificant. Life is so unredictable. Forget about your partner falling out love, tomorrow you yourself might not be able to relate to him/her the way you used to for whatever the reasons may be.

Scary? Hell yeah
But this optimistic part of me rises from somewhere inside and tells me that not all cases turn out to be as sour. You have to keep the love alive and it is an effortless thing when the right one comes along.
I completely believe in *soulmates*. Call me someone who lives in a world of butterflies and rainbows, Idontcare.

People change. Situations change. Boredom. Work Pressure. And so many others I can't think of right now.
To battle your way through all that, together ..still madly in love with each other ..is like wow! :)

And if you even fall out of love ..let it free. Don't cling on to a relationship or a person. Accept the fact that things arent the same anymore and let go. You'll be glad you did so!

'In a single moment you might be perfect
And sit In a window of my life
But how much how much more will I get to see?
What would i strive to hide
Now there will be no compromise
So take it in your stride
I will leave you now with a smile'

- Lovesong by Amiel

It's 2:40! What am i doing posting stuff about love and all that!
Goooodnight

7 comments:

Pratik Gupta said...

sugeest you should try your hand on this novel " The Alchemy of Desire" by tarun Tejpal...Its completely on lines what you have written. Well said!

Ria said...

ha ha!! Yeah me too wondering what were u doing up at that time!? :P

The Me. said...

Optimistic, oh yes. =D
*Presses the Like button*

Rishi said...

well said... but its for such realizations to reach within time frame...


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♪♪HARINI♪♪ said...

Wow thats so true!! Loved it!
You should post more stuff in the middle of the night. :D

Kanav said...

really nice post...you should check this out...written on a similar topic.. http://kanav-warrior-of-light.blogspot.com/2010/01/its-not-youits-me.html

laddu said...

according to stats, more love marriages ends in divorce than the arranged ones.. :)

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